Wrestling with the Soul of Work, and Stories under the Surface

Jul 10th, 2008 | By Kat | Category: bard's tales

It seems like lately, everyone is getting all existentially-angsty about work.  I blame gas prices.  (Just kidding!  Mostly…)

Apparently, a lot of folks on the web are pondering work/life balance, the cost vs. benefit analysis of commuting, and how the nature of employment itself is changing. This is a topic that is only going to continue to spur discussion and debate.

The personal, economic, and environmental cost of commuting is skyrocketing.  The influence of social media, greater access to increasingly better connectivity tools, and some fundamental, generational changes in the way we think about work means that it’s time to strap in, bunkies.  The ride is going to get interesting.

The work world is changing, fast, and we’re all trying to figure out the new world order before it’s even here yet.

After writing my last post about losing touch with what keeps my work life vibrant and healthy, I caught several posts by other bloggers along similar themes.

  • Nataly at Work It, Mom mentions that despite the increase in people working two jobs, Gen Y (and I personally think you have to include Gen X here as well) claim to value work/life balance more than previous generations.
  • One of my favorite PR/Social Media bloggers Valeria Maltoni of Conversation Agent uses Daniel Lanois as an example of letting passion infuse your work life, and the rich rewards that come from that.
  • Over on Sparkplugging, Dawud Miracle talks about how constantly asking yourself why you’re doing what you do is important to maintaining motivation in your work.

“…‘why’ is the question that gives meaning, that gives life, to your work. Why is the motivating factor that makes us consider our impact in the world.”

“Since my workload is pretty much full all the time I don’t have much room for lost time. Of course this is between me working and trying to keep a balance with a social live, time spent with my husband and my beloved pets.”

  • Power blogger Chris Brogan had a recent post where he, too, was threading some trends together that related to work/life balance, telecommuting, and the slightly more slippery idea of sharing your personal brand with your employer.

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This is something of a sidebar, but I’ll admit that last idea is really intriguing to me.  Over the last year or so, I’ve slowly (and probably sloppily) been trying to create my own personal brand, because I think I’ve instinctively understood that having a recognizable, respected personal brand in my field makes me a better asset for an employer.

(Awkward pause as I acknowledge that it makes me a better asset for an employer, until I leave their employment…  okay, moving on.)

On second thought, that’s not entirely true.  I think that if you achieve recognition and respect as an individual, I don’t think the value of that exits as soon as you exit a company’s payroll.  Particularly if you’ve represented them well on the social web, and leave on good terms.

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But back to the main thread in all this. Many people are clearly wrestling with the desire to create a vibrant, passionate work life that doesn’t detract from your other most treasured values–whether it’s the value they place on spending adequate time with their families, the value they place on their environmental impact, or the value they place on determining an equitable relationship with their employer.

I just think it’s interesting how this soulful, work-related wrestling has popped up in posts about mostly seemingly unrelated things.  Which reminds me of another interesting, thought-provoking post from Chris Garrett.

Like it or not, your inner “stuff” tends to leak out. It does that in real world conversations, and it most certainly does in blogging, which is an intrinsically personal form of writing.

Half the time, when I’m reading the posts in my feed, I’m not so much reading what the post is ostensibly about (there are, after all, only so many posts a woman can digest on blogging tips.)  Chris’ post helped me realize that much of the time, I’m actually reading these posts for the “between the lines,” ulterior conversation.  Taken in aggregate, those “off topic” musings are the song of the zeitgeist, and tell you much about what’s going on in the anima mundi (”soul of the world”).

On a more personal note, I’m planning a little “work life balance” adjustment this weekend, going on an overnight with my sisters to a remote undisclosed location.  My understanding is that there will be massages, cocktails, chick flicks, and a lot of conversation–not necessarily in that order.

See you all when I get back.

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  1. Kat:

    I wanted to tell you how much I enjoyed this string of connected thoughts. I am thrilled to find in it a kindred spirit - sometimes I do wonder when my writing wonders a little bit as I find my meaning.

    My way of expressing what Chris G. wrote is that the conversation is already happening in people’s heads - our heads. When we connect, it is because the material - and the person - verbalizes or alludes to what we feel. It’s not the words exactly, it’s the mood the writing evokes.

    As for the strong personal brand potentially being a problem - yup, if you happen to work with someone who is insecure.

    Valeria Maltonis last story..The Usual Suspects

  2. Valeria -

    Thanks so much for responding. There really does seem to be a mood permeating western culture, and especially the social web, where everyone seems to be asking “What am I doing all this for? Is this really the best use of my energy and time on earth?”

    I think it’s good that so many are asking these questions. The answers probably won’t be simple or easy, but asking the question is where you start.

    And you make a compelling point about the personal branding issue. Thanks.

  3. Hi Kat,

    This was indeed an eye opener in the sense of the connection we make with each other. I think Valeria hit it spot on with her comment about how we really connect with each other. Up until this moment I knew this intuitively but was never able to explain it in such smart words.

    Thank you guys, another puzzle solved.

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  4. Thanks for the comment, Monika. Glad you found the post, and Valeria’s thoughts, helpful.

    I think it also explains why many bloggers can write about the same exact topic, but only certain ones will really connect with me. We’re probably connecting on that other, less overt level.

  5. It’s amazing

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